If you took your inner child to the bookstore and allotted them two books to pick out one of course would be the giving tree because you love a therapeutic cry - and the second book would be How to do the work by Dr. Nicole Lapera. Her book explores how childhood trauma and experiences related to our caretakers can result in cyclic patterns of dysfunction, illness and self sabotaging behavior in adulthood.
“Healing is a daily event. You can't "go somewhere" to be healed; you must go inward to be healed. This means a daily commitment to doing the work.” - The Holistic Psychologist
The “work” mentioned, is explained as an exercise of awareness of one's own thoughts and actions on a daily basis while taking the time to carefully unpack your history. The healing process throughout reading Leperas book mimics the epiphany of self discovery of not only your adult self but also your inner child. Each chapter introduces aspects and tools that are dedicated to help you separate yourself from toxic people, situations and environments that cause triggering distress.